hello guys thanks for the feedback, to answere a few questions,
tarantula if cared for properly can live for 3-15 years+ the females always living longer leaving the males at the -5 margine, providing he doesnt get killed by the female during mating

i do not know why the females outlive the males to such a wide scale
food wise, when they are tiny spiderlings you usually start on small crickets, and feed them roughly 3 a week is ok, but if your like me and like the thrill of the kill, everyday (in Chloe's case 2 a day, she really is greedy)... this allows them to grow faster too, due to the size of my spiders, i now feed them adult lockust, only because the largest of crickets is not an adequate meal, so i feed mine, roughly 4-5 times a week, untill full maturity, like Claudia, now she's at full growth, there is no need to feed her as regular, she gets 2-3 a week, they can go many weeks without food, but need regular water, as in Calrrissa and CleoRocco's case they are jungle spiders and need much humidty, infact as in the photo, CleoRocco is the only one i ever see drinking